As there is a popular saying, “Most people die at twenty and are buried at eighty.”
Most people don’t know what exactly they want in life and spend their life without making any significant progress or growth.
Mark Manson says “We exist on this earth for some undetermined period of time. During that time we do things. Some of these things are important. Some of them are unimportant. And those important things give our lives meaning and happiness. The unimportant ones basically just kill time.
What do you really want in life?
As I said earlier people struggle in answering this question, when asked what they want or what their goals in life are, many are unsure. They appear uncertain in their decision, hardly having any idea about what they want in life.
Perhaps this is the biggest reason why people fail to achieve success they want. People without definite goals are letting time pass them by. I know you don’t want to be one of these living zombies.
If you are unsure about what you want in life, then keep reading this post. In this post you will read about some of the best ways to discover your purpose in life.
Dig Deeper into Your Heart
To know what exactly you want in life, try looking deep into your heart. Start listening to your heart in this way you will be able to listen to your inner self. It happens many times what your inner self ways usually appears to be right one.
Stop living by what others like you to be and start living by what you think you should be. What your heart wants comes from the whispers of your inner self. Your inner self is the real you.
Moreover, what your heart desires the most or what you usually love to do represents your passion. And something done with passion is just like a game or play where the task is accomplished without uncertainty. You give your level best and feel no heaviness or confrontation from inside.
Make a list of your passions
As you already read above, what your heart desires the most is something which represents you passion. Now your task is to find and make a list of your passions. Write down things which your love to do and accomplish them without any hesitation.
You don’t necessarily have a career in something you are crazy about but you might be able to match up interests and your career to some extent.
Settle on what makes you truly happy
Happiness is known to be the root of desires. If you aren’t living a happy life then you need to spare some time and think about what makes you truly happy. Do you like traveling? Spending time with your family? Being a successful business man? Being financially free?
Once you identify the one thing that makes you truly happy, you’ll have a pretty clear idea of what you should strive for in your life.
Simply don’t leave any room for regrets, find your passions and do what makes you happy. Here I am not asking you to become really selfish person and do wrong with others. I am just saying you to take care of what makes you happy, just like as you care for others.
Regrets are really damaging, and the constant ones are specially killing. These won’t allow you to move forward and live a happier life. So stop regretting for the past ill done things and start living life.
Everybody is well aware of the benefits of meditation. It is especially beneficial for your mental health and happiness. Meditations help you clear your thoughts so that you can see your important tasks more clearly.
When you have a clear mind you can easily focus on things which are important to make your life better and worth living.
Do Some Experimentation
If you are struggling to find your real passion then you need to do some experimentation. Try new things, think less and do more. This is perhaps the best way to discover passion.
All you need is to identify things that you could potentially be interested in and then try them out.
Listen to your instinct
Part of human nature is the mystifying and natural reaction on things. Often times, these are called instincts. Your real self communicates with you and guides you via instincts. Instincts are those gentle nudge that urge you to act and follow a certain path. Your role then is to listen attentively.
Wrapping It Up
The bottom line here is if you want to live truly and greatly, you must define what you want in your life and what your brightest life will look like. This is all about finding purpose in your life; hopefully point mentioned in this post will help you do the same. Cheers!